Toxic Masculinities Study Focuses on U.S., U.K. and Mexico.
By Brian Heilman and Gary Barker
Some men are able to reject restrictive, negative social pressures related to masculinity, but many embrace these pressures and rules, as well as the version of manhood they represent. While young men surveyed in the U.S., the United Kingdom, and Mexico, overwhelmingly reject notions of manhood that imply that men are superior to women or that men should not care for children, they show strong support for toughness and the repression of emotions. Indeed, while men in the three countries have come a long way toward accepting equality between women and men, they still have a long way to go to break free of norms that hold them in emotionally straitjacketed forms of manhood.
In a groundbreaking study on young men’s views about manhood, Promundo, an international gender justice organization, created an instrument they call the “Man Box”—a set of 17 attitude questions that measure how much men adhere to the tenets of “toxic masculinity.” The original study includes representative samples of more than 1,000 young men in each setting, including rural/urban areas, and young men in all educational and income levels. The survey was carried out in October 2017. More recently, Promundo conducted additional analysis of the data focusing specifically on young men and sexual harassment. Among the findings:
Harassment starts young and takes many forms
Much of the discussion about harassment has been about the behavior of men in power: Harvey Weinstein, Matt Lauer, prominent legislators, and business leaders. However, recent research from Promundo finds that harassing and abusive behaviors start young and are pervasive among men of all backgrounds:
- One in five young men in Mexico to nearly a third in the U.S. and the U.K. had made sexually harassing comments to a woman or girl they didn’t know, in a public place, like the street, their workplace, school/university, or in an Internet or social media space, in the prior month.
- Between 42 and 48 percent of young men ages 18–30 in the three countries had teased someone or called them names, either male or female, in the prior month.
- One in five young men in Mexico, and nearly one in three young men in the U.K. and the U.S. had posted photos or messages to embarrass or harass someone, either male or female, in the prior month.
- One in five in Mexico to a third of young men in the U.S. and the UK reported hurting someone physically, with their fist or a weapon in the prior month.
Far from the behavior of only rich and powerful men, abuse and harassment of various kinds are commonly and routinely carried out every day by young men in all three countries, at rates from one fifth to one third of young men surveyed.
Which young men harass or use violence?
It’s important to point out that a majority of young men don’t harass males or females, don’t bully, and don’t approve of such violence. But one in five to one in three do. What makes the harassers different from the non-harassers? Which young men are more likely to harass?
Across all three countries, when young men who had harassed were compared to those who had not, the strongest factor was their attitudes about what it means to be a man. These were measured using the Man Box scale of 17 attitude statements, including: “Guys should act strong even when they feel scared or nervous inside” and “A real man would never say no to sex,” among others. Young men who believed in these toxic ideas of manhood most strongly were the most likely to have ever perpetrated sexual harassment.
Young men who held the strongest belief in toxic norms of manhood were nearly 10 times as likely to have harassed as young men who least believed in these norms. This association was significant even when controlling for age, income, and education. In other words, young men who harass come from all income levels, all educational backgrounds, and all ages. Harassment is not only perpetrated by men in power; at the same time, it is clearly an attempt to exert power over women, girls, and/or other men. What seems to drive young men’s harassment, more than any other factor surveyed, is how much they believe in, or have internalized, toxic ideas about masculinity.
We’re all responsible for ending harassment among men
If it’s their attitudes that are in large part driving men’s harassing behaviors, how often are these toxic ideas about manhood communicated to boys? The survey included asking young men about whether they had been exposed to these ideas:
- Across all three countries, at some point in their lives nearly two thirds had been told that a “real man” behaves a certain way.
- More than half of the young men surveyed in all three countries agreed, “Society as a whole tells me that a real man would never say no to sex.”
- One in five young men in Mexico to one in three in the U.S. and the U.K. said that his partner (primarily women) expects him to use violence to defend his reputation.
Parents, teachers, the media, colleagues, intimate partners, and male and female peers too often repeat and pass on these messages that “real manhood” is about domination, using violence, and never taking “no” for an answer when it comes to sex. The bottom line? Society spends a lot of time and energy raising boys into a toxic version of manhood.
What can we do to end toxic masculinity and harassment?
The encouraging news is that there are programs, with evidence to back them up, that have been shown to change young men’s views about manhood, and to reduce sexual harassment and other forms of violence. Promundo’s Manhood 2.0 group education initiative is currently being evaluated by the U.S. Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) as a promising practice in sexual assault prevention. Manhood 2.0 is based on Promundo’s Program H approach, which has been used in more than 20 settings globally where it’s been found to change attitudes related to toxic masculinities and to reduce violence by young men in multiple impact evaluations. These have been conducted from Latin America and sub-Saharan Africa to South Asia and Europe (promundoglobal.org/programs/manhood-2-0/).
There are many exits to the Man Box; it is up to us to show young men the way.
Brian Heilman is a senior research fellow at Promundo-US. Gary Barker is Promundo’s president and CEO.
- Start early, engaging youth in reflection and discussion about respect and equality, in school and in after-school programs.
- Reach children and adolescents where they are—at home, school, online, in sports programs, and beyond.
- Discuss directly “what it means to be a man,” using critical conversations about gender norms to show how young men can shape their definition of masculinity around respect, care, generosity, and rejection of violence.
- Listen to women and include their voices at all levels of programming and outreach, and elevate the voices of women of color, disabled women, immigrant women, and lesbian, transgender, and bisexual women, who may be disproportionately affected by violence.
- Involve caregivers, particularly fathers and other male caregivers, in teaching and modeling equality, respect, and nonviolence at home.
- Work alongside and follow the lead of women’s rights activists.
- Target all men: sexual harassment and assault is pervasive across men’s ages and backgrounds.
- rk with celebrities and key gatekeepers (such as religious leaders) as visible role models for positive behavior.
- Implement bystander approaches, teaching young men to speak out in nonviolent ways when they see the abusive behavior of their peers.